ย 21 Things I Want to Do Before 21

My 21st birthday is in 2 weeks (on Memorial Day to be exact), and I feel like I have not been doing enough in my two months here so far. 


So, to consolidate, I am compiling sort of a to-do list of things I want to do in Japan before the next era of my life begins. 

  1. Try matcha from Uji. 

I love matcha, and Japan is seen as the matcha capital of the world, more specifically Uji. I want to try some glorious matcha in the place that is known for it and savor the taste. It is only a short trip from Kyoto, so why not go?

  1. Feed a deer in Nara. 

As much as deer annoy me when I am driving back home, I think they are beautiful creatures. In Nara, they are known for their deer park, a park full of respectful deer (yes, respectful; they like to bow) and the experience of feeding them. I can put my resentment aside to feel the joy of a deer eating from my hand.ย 

  1. Wear a kimono. 

Even though I have been in Japan for a few months so far, I have yet to wear a kimono! As the weather warms, and since I am a baby in the heat, I want to wear one before it gets too hot to function even in regular clothes. 

  1. Visit all of the shrines and temples. 

Obviously, I canโ€™t visit every single shrine and temple, but there are so many near me I havenโ€™t been to. Whether big or small, Buddhist or Shinto, I want to see the beauty of them up close. 

  1. Stroll around the grounds of Nijล Castle. 

A beautiful world heritage site, Nijล is only a 20-minute train ride. Andโ€“Iโ€™m noticing a common theme hereโ€“I have not swiped my transit card and made my way.ย 

  1. Develop my film.

I have taken so many pictures on my film camera, but I havenโ€™t developed them yet. I want to develop them before we go on more trips so I have all of the film I need.ย 

  1. Explore Gion. 

Gion is known for its Geishas, but there is so much more to see, like temples, shrines, and shops. 

  1. Clean my room.

Seemingly out of place here, we have to make room for the small things. I have been neglecting this; maybe my birthday will motivate me. 

  1. Hit Kiyomizu-dera. 

Arguably one of the most famous temples or shrines in all of Japan, this famous landmark is less than an hour commute.

  1. Go on a long walk. 

The area I live in has some incredibly gorgeous views; in the foothills of the mountains and near the Kamogawa (Kamo River), every direction presents you with beautiful sights. Letโ€™s hope for nice days to come.ย 

  1. Support a small business. 

There are so many small businesses near me that I just want to go and spend my money at all of them but have so little time. In these next few weeks, I will support a small business near me for either food or goods.ย 

  1. Read a book. 

I brought so many books with me from home that I have yet to read; maybe I can hit two birds with one stone and read my book at a temple or park. 

  1. Have a picnic at the park. 

Speaking of parks, there are so many beautiful parks in Kyoto that I have such easy access to. How nice would it be to sit and bask in the sun under the beautiful greenery of the trees?

  1. Hang out with a new friend. 

I have met so many new friends but have yet to hang out with them one on one! A great birthday gift to myself would be making memories with a new buddy.ย 

  1. Rent a bike. 

Kamogawa has some beautiful views, and I constantly see bikers and joggers running down the path. I have been inspired by the heavy biking culture here and now want to ride a bike and watch the water flow, possibly move towards the mountains that surround it.ย 

  1. Change my look. 

Just as my age is changing, I would like to switch something up about the way I look. Whether itโ€™s a new piercing, haircut, or manicure, I want to splurge a bit as a form of self-care.ย 

  1. Hike Kibune and Kurama.

Two villages in close proximity to one another, there are some phenomenal views to be seen as you hike up the mountains and through the shrines that down the hillside. Just make sure to bring my inhaler.ย ย 

  1. Discover a new cafe. 

As a self-proclaimed coffee lover (more like fiend), there are so many cafes and coffee shops in my area that I just canโ€™t hit them all. I would at least want to discover one new one before these next two weeks are up.ย 

  1. Try a new food. 

For someone who is a picky eater mixed with texture sensitivities, trying new foods can be excruciating. But what better time to do so than in a new country? 

  1. Get some genuine rest. 

Rest is a luxury that is hard for college students to come by; especially now where so much uncertainty is occurring around us. But I deserve some rest, and I will do my best to ensure I get some. 

  1. Watch the Minecraft movie in Japanese.

I see so many people from home talking about how good the movie was, and all of my friends (more specifically Sophie) have mentioned wanting to go. Why not make it a birthday trip, and test my language skills while we’re at it? 


All in all, there are too many things I want to do but no time to do them. At least, with making this list, I can maybe muster up some of the courage needed to actually get up and do them, maybe even ask some new friends to come with me. 

Itโ€™s time to ring in a new year with some new experiences.

A multi-step stamp acquired at the Kyoto Botanical Gardens, a 5 minute walk from my dorm!

Spending the weekend in your host city…

While studying abroad it seems that everyone is always off to a explore a different country each weekend, and spending quality time in your host city in is often overlooked. My piece of advice after studying abroad in two different countries is to balance out your weekends in your city, and time spent traveling. Not only will this help make your travel experiences more enjoyable, reduce burnout, tiredness (from those 6am budget flights, etc…) but it will also help you truly experience your city.

No one else staying behind for the weekend? No problem. Often we feel like we should make every day studying abroad a perfect one, and a social one. But the truth is, sometimes it doesn’t work out like that. For example, two of my apartment-mates came here as friends and have travel together every weekend, and I am not that close with my roommate because we have very different schedules and lifestyles. So, while I wish I had someone to walk around the city with this weekend, I plan on making the most of it, enjoying some solo time to slow down, experience and reflect. You never know what you may stumble upon or come to realize with some self-time.

On Friday I slept in and then did some chores around the house, cooked some meals… and while I felt ‘behind’ my schedule, I just needed to remind myself I am where I need to be, and that this was my chill day. I then went out walking without using any directions. At this point I know the route to the beach and back, but its also just fun to wander and see where you end up. If I only have a few days to explore a city or country, then I like to have everything mapped and planned. But if I am somewhere for a long period of time, I always try to have an experience of ‘getting lost’. I happened to wander by the well known ‘kiss mural’ in Barcelona, that I hadn’t seen yet, and pass by a cellist outside a church playing one of my favorite songs, ‘Moon River’. I then wandered a long the beach trying to find a quiet, sunny spot. It was a rather interesting day at the beach. I witnessed someone walking on someones back, massaging them, two guys selling beach blankets getting into a yelling argument, and finally, I had a lady come up to me and pinch my shoulder asking if I wanted a massage, which startled me so much because she snuck up on me. Then I watched the sunset, and the sky fade from light blue, to dusty pink, and smoky purple.

On Saturday, it was as I anticipated, a cloudy, chilly, rainy day. Perfect for what I had planned. I enjoyed sleeping in again, then walked down the block down to my favorite cafe called Afecte. It’s always these two friendly Spaniards, and one Argentinian working, and I always practice my Spanish with them. Most Spaniards are so friendly and happy when you speak Spanish to them. Also, Barcelona has sooooo many fabulous, aesthetic, wonderful cafes and brunch places. There is practically one everywhere you look, serving beautifully plated food, with people chatting or doing work. Something about Barcelona that I enjoy is that people work in cafes, similar to in the US. For example, when I was in Italy, no one did this, it wasn’t common. From there I walked down to the Boqueria, and got a few oranges from the produce stalls. I am still trying to find the best and most affordable place to buy produce in Barcelona, there are so many options! I always love getting my produce from stalls or markets rather than a grocery store, and it is usually better quality, and more local. Then I walked to La Virreina Centro de la Imagen. A wonderful free museum! I really enjoyed this, it was a great free experience to do in Barcelona, with some interesting exhibitions. After that I went to another free museum called Museu Frederic. Finally to end the night, I went to a free International mass at La Sagrada Familia! It was so amazing, I definitely recommend even if you’re not religious (like me) because it also gets you free access into the building. Overall a really nice experience, and it gave me nostalgia to going to mass with my host family way back then.

On Sunday I wanted to check out this large, free cactus and botanical garden near the beach. So I walked down there, and also walked up into the hills on Mont. Juic. There was a more extensive garden then I realized! I caught the sunset up there, then met up with my friends at Casa Batllo (one of Gaudi’s houses, which just so happens to be a few blocks down from me). At Batllo they were doing a really cool lights show, that they only do every so often. Lastly, I finished up some homework for the weekend, and planned my week!

It was a great weekend in Barcelona, and after spending two weekends in Barcelona here are some places I’ve explored. As well as a little re-cap of many different free activities you can do when in Barcelona:

  • Casa Batllo
  • Casa Mila
  • (Any other casa by Gaudi)
  • La Boqueria
  • La Virreina Centro de la Imagen
  • Museo Frederic
  • Jardins de Mossen Costa
  • Museu Nacional d’Art de Catalunya (free on Saturday’s anytime after 3)
  • the beach!
  • See La Sagrada Familia and the park nearby
  • Bunkers el Carmel
  • Parc de la Cuitadella
  • Arc de Triomf
  • More to come!

Follow along on my time in Barca, and see more photos here! https://www.instagram.com/pranaphotos_/