A glimpse of the past two weeks…

Hi everyone! It’s been a while since I sat down to write a blog post, which is partially due to the busyness of adjusting to a new routine and partially due to my fear that what I write won’t be interesting. Recovering perfectionists, I know you know what I’m saying. I’m forcing myself to get over that, though, because living in Athens has been incredible and exhausting and eye-opening, and I want to share that with my community! So, since I last posted, I’ve…

  • visited the islands of Agistri and Aegina, two islands within a two-hour ferry ride of the mainland. Aegina is known for its pistachio trees, so pretty much everything there is pistachio-flavored. (The salted pistachio caramel gelato was to die for). The first time I went to Aegina with my roommates was actually not by choice, as the first ferry was full and we were essentially stuck on the island until 10pm. The change of plans was unexpected and made me a little (…a lot) stressed, but it made for a very funny story now!
  • volunteered with the Sustainability Leaders group on my university’s campus to help reduce food waste at the local farmers market! ACG partners with Baroume, a Greek nonprofit, to collect unwanted produce at the end of the farmer’s market on Fridays to donate to different organizations around the Athens area. The day I volunteered, we filled the entire van with “rescued” produce that would be given to those in need.
  • discovered my new favorite bookstore near campus! Not only did they have two newly released books I’ve been dying to read, but they also had a beautiful outdoor cafe area where one of my roommates and I did homework for a couple of hours. I felt right at home there; I can’t wait to go back. One of my next blog posts might just be about the best bookstores in Athens…stay tuned 😉
  • attended a movie showing at the Athens Film Festival! My bus was late, I got slightly lost, and I sat in a terrible seat, but all in all, I felt very cool and cultured for being part of something artistic in the Athens area that I wouldn’t normally have access to at home. The movie I saw was “Bad Timing” from the 1980s. It wasn’t what I thought I was going to see, but it was fun and thought-provoking nonetheless!
  • had a lot of ups and downs, which feel common due to the fact that I’m away from everything I’ve ever known. I’m working on finding my groove and my people, even on days when it’s hard. I’m learning a lot and having fun, though, and that’s what I’m most grateful for. Always!

Blending in while abroad

When traveling abroad people will notice your “American-ness,” regardless of race, gender, ethnicity or sexual orientation. The simple fact is that this country leaves an indelible mark on you, from your sense of style, actions, mannerisms or political viewpoint that will be “tells” indicating your foreignness.

In no way am I trying to attack individuality, it has just been my experience that there are some things that stick out in me that indicate I am from the U.S. I have had the unique opportunity to travel to 18 different countries. My mother is Mexican-American and my father is Afro-Jamaican. I always thought that my racial ambiguity would be a sort of shield in traversing the globe; believing it protected me from American stereotypes, which can cause challenges or misunderstandings. In many respects, this has been the case. For instance, it is much easier for me to walk down the streets of Kingston, Jamaica as a “brown” male, regardless of my heritage, when compared to a “white” female.

However, this has not always been the case. One instance in particular, while traveling on a crowded bus through the Andes, let me know just how telling my “Americaness” was. I am very self-conscious about my Spanish; it is not very good and my accent is very noticeably American. As a result, I try never to speak too loudly in public settings, and limit how much I say so I don’t stand out. Also, as I mentioned earlier, I could easily be mistaken as a resident of any number of countries in the region. However,  in this instance, I was called out by one of the traveling salesman that hop on and off the bus at every stop, as he referred to me as “Yankee” without me doing or saying anything.

This was not the first and probably won’t be the last time I will be viewed as an American without displaying any obvious indicators. But, I have found ways to limit the exposure of those “tells,” regardless of who you are:

  1. Don’t bring white name-brand sneakers. Shoes are a luxury in much of the world. If you are lucky enough to have two pairs, one is designated for everyday living and the other for church or other formal engagements. Wearing nice white sneakers are a dead giveaway that you are a foreigner and have the means to afford a shoe that gets dirty quickly.
  2. Keep your University of Denver shirts, hoodies and sweatpants at home-You are basically wearing a big sign on your chest that indicates where you are from, your age and why you are there. Also, this attire is informal, which is odd in much of the world.
  3. Keep your voice down-Yes, it is true, Americans are loud and very opinionated. There’s nothing wrong with this fact, however, there is a time and place for everything and sitting on a quite bus is no place to complain about a lack of facilities, or being hungry, or feeling “gross.”
  4.  Walk upright and be confident-Of course you are unsure about where you are going and what you are doing. Who wouldn’t be in a foreign country with a foreign language? The point is that nobody else needs to know. Be confident in your direction and walk down the street with a sense of purpose.  Aggressive vendors love tourists who have wandering eyes and walk a stop-and-go pace. 

– Pablo Hester, DUSA Graduate Peer Advisor