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ย 21 Things I Want to Do Before 21

My 21st birthday is in 2 weeks (on Memorial Day to be exact), and I feel like I have not been doing enough in my two months here so far. 


So, to consolidate, I am compiling sort of a to-do list of things I want to do in Japan before the next era of my life begins. 

  1. Try matcha from Uji. 

I love matcha, and Japan is seen as the matcha capital of the world, more specifically Uji. I want to try some glorious matcha in the place that is known for it and savor the taste. It is only a short trip from Kyoto, so why not go?

  1. Feed a deer in Nara. 

As much as deer annoy me when I am driving back home, I think they are beautiful creatures. In Nara, they are known for their deer park, a park full of respectful deer (yes, respectful; they like to bow) and the experience of feeding them. I can put my resentment aside to feel the joy of a deer eating from my hand.ย 

  1. Wear a kimono. 

Even though I have been in Japan for a few months so far, I have yet to wear a kimono! As the weather warms, and since I am a baby in the heat, I want to wear one before it gets too hot to function even in regular clothes. 

  1. Visit all of the shrines and temples. 

Obviously, I canโ€™t visit every single shrine and temple, but there are so many near me I havenโ€™t been to. Whether big or small, Buddhist or Shinto, I want to see the beauty of them up close. 

  1. Stroll around the grounds of Nijล Castle. 

A beautiful world heritage site, Nijล is only a 20-minute train ride. Andโ€“Iโ€™m noticing a common theme hereโ€“I have not swiped my transit card and made my way.ย 

  1. Develop my film.

I have taken so many pictures on my film camera, but I havenโ€™t developed them yet. I want to develop them before we go on more trips so I have all of the film I need.ย 

  1. Explore Gion. 

Gion is known for its Geishas, but there is so much more to see, like temples, shrines, and shops. 

  1. Clean my room.

Seemingly out of place here, we have to make room for the small things. I have been neglecting this; maybe my birthday will motivate me. 

  1. Hit Kiyomizu-dera. 

Arguably one of the most famous temples or shrines in all of Japan, this famous landmark is less than an hour commute.

  1. Go on a long walk. 

The area I live in has some incredibly gorgeous views; in the foothills of the mountains and near the Kamogawa (Kamo River), every direction presents you with beautiful sights. Letโ€™s hope for nice days to come.ย 

  1. Support a small business. 

There are so many small businesses near me that I just want to go and spend my money at all of them but have so little time. In these next few weeks, I will support a small business near me for either food or goods.ย 

  1. Read a book. 

I brought so many books with me from home that I have yet to read; maybe I can hit two birds with one stone and read my book at a temple or park. 

  1. Have a picnic at the park. 

Speaking of parks, there are so many beautiful parks in Kyoto that I have such easy access to. How nice would it be to sit and bask in the sun under the beautiful greenery of the trees?

  1. Hang out with a new friend. 

I have met so many new friends but have yet to hang out with them one on one! A great birthday gift to myself would be making memories with a new buddy.ย 

  1. Rent a bike. 

Kamogawa has some beautiful views, and I constantly see bikers and joggers running down the path. I have been inspired by the heavy biking culture here and now want to ride a bike and watch the water flow, possibly move towards the mountains that surround it.ย 

  1. Change my look. 

Just as my age is changing, I would like to switch something up about the way I look. Whether itโ€™s a new piercing, haircut, or manicure, I want to splurge a bit as a form of self-care.ย 

  1. Hike Kibune and Kurama.

Two villages in close proximity to one another, there are some phenomenal views to be seen as you hike up the mountains and through the shrines that down the hillside. Just make sure to bring my inhaler.ย ย 

  1. Discover a new cafe. 

As a self-proclaimed coffee lover (more like fiend), there are so many cafes and coffee shops in my area that I just canโ€™t hit them all. I would at least want to discover one new one before these next two weeks are up.ย 

  1. Try a new food. 

For someone who is a picky eater mixed with texture sensitivities, trying new foods can be excruciating. But what better time to do so than in a new country? 

  1. Get some genuine rest. 

Rest is a luxury that is hard for college students to come by; especially now where so much uncertainty is occurring around us. But I deserve some rest, and I will do my best to ensure I get some. 

  1. Watch the Minecraft movie in Japanese.

I see so many people from home talking about how good the movie was, and all of my friends (more specifically Sophie) have mentioned wanting to go. Why not make it a birthday trip, and test my language skills while we’re at it? 


All in all, there are too many things I want to do but no time to do them. At least, with making this list, I can maybe muster up some of the courage needed to actually get up and do them, maybe even ask some new friends to come with me. 

Itโ€™s time to ring in a new year with some new experiences.

A multi-step stamp acquired at the Kyoto Botanical Gardens, a 5 minute walk from my dorm!

Reflecting on my time in Florence and Barcelona

It has felt like such a whirlwind since being back in the US. But now that it has been a solid length of time, I feel like I can come on here and fully reflect.

Comparing Italy and Spain is like comparing apples to oranges. Yes there are similar aspects, but both of my experiences were very different, for many reasons. The first question people asked me when I returned to the US was: โ€œwhich place was your favorite?โ€โ€ฆ but truthfully, I cannot answer this question. Both countries and programs brought me different experiences and wonderful memories. So here are some of those feelings and experiences broken down.

If Iโ€™m being honest, Barcelona is probably one of my favorite European cities. I am so filled with gratitude to have gotten to know it and its beauty over a short 10 week time. I am so grateful to have lived in a lively, historic, beautifully designed, buzzing city. I loved hearing Spanish and Catalan, as well as learning more about Catalan history and culture. Having a connection to the language and being able to understand everyday aspects, from stores, to conversations in the street, to ordering in restaurants in Spanish, was a reminder about the importance of learning other languages. It also immensely connected me to my environment and the Spanish culture. Making it feel both so foreign and yet not far from home. Letโ€™s just say that if someone asked me if I wanted to drop everything and move to Barcelona, I probably would. I miss speaking in Spanish and the fast paced yet easy going Spaniard living. I loved living nearby the ocean for the first time in my life, but still being near hills and mountains. I feel like the location of Spain is so ideal, and the geography is truly special. I could spend years just exploring Spain, from the costal villages, to mediaeval pueblos, to new ever sprawling cities, Spain has so much to offer. I have made it my goal to return and do the Camino de Santiago. Spain reminded me the importance of language, history, art, community, socialization, and the art of taking it easy, without missing out on a fast paced world. The academics in Spain were quite good, I had one of my all time favorite professors for a Spanish Lit class, and an absolute genius, philanthropic computer science professor. Reminding me how most everything in the world comes back to art, literature and shared community. So thank you Barcelona for the 1,500,000 (approx) steps of exploration, sightseeing, Long Beach sunset contemplations, and quiet solo time. Until next time, I miss you already.

Now Florence,

Florence holds a special place in my heart. I will admit while I was in Barcelona I often found myself missing aspects of life in Italy. Which caught me off gaurd because I didn’t really anticipate that feeling. I missed the Italian intensity, ordering at a cafe in the only Italian I knew, saying โ€œalloraโ€, produce and resturants, but mostly I missed my classes, photography professors and jewelry professor. The art classes in Florence were quite unmatched. From a wax casting jewelry making class with a lively fiery Brazilian professor, who spoke English, Spanish, Italian, and Portuguese, to the photography studios and long classes. I miss my food photography professor dearly, he often took us on what I would call culture walks, rather than photography walks. Teaching us about gastronomy, wine, food, the stories of local vendors and restaurants, and how to capture a clean professional food content photo. It was wonderful learning and developing film in a dark room for my fashion photography. Fun fact! The photography classes I took in Florence were my first formal photography classes and education! I love the surrounding hills of Florence so much. I hope I never forget the magic of my last day in Florence, wandering through a forested section of the hills above Florence I had never been to. The way the light came through the cypress trees, truly one of the most ethereal experiences in nature I have had. Florence brought my the expansive often frustrating solo travel and train experiences. Looking back I feel like I truly was someone else in my time there; traveling around solo to other countries at the drop of a hat, almost every weekend, without a second thought. Building many skills in dealing with adversity, cross culture communication, and resourcefulness. One of my favorite places in earth is the Dolomites. The mountains will forever be one of the most awe inspiring, humbling, and grounding places for me. After taking the train, solo, through northern Italy and Austria in the middle of a snowy fall night, I was struck with the magic of the landscape. The magic that has inspired so much art and literature, I truly felt the power of the landscape and understood why so many fairytales stemmed from these areas. Inspiring me to remember to find a place that inspires me, or an environment that I find value in- and not to waste time chasing places or superficial aspects of life.

People often focus on the career application takeaways of studying abroad, and push aside the personal. But I truly believe that your personal experiences, whether big or small, which shaped your time in another culture is what builds those career applicable skills.

First adaptability, adapting to life at a new university, with new people, in a new culture and language is not an easy task. You are learning how to navigate and communicate with people again; and when accustomed communication methods fail, you turn to resourcefulness to succeed in your new environment. Leading into communication, luckily modern day technology has made this language barrier easier to overcome. However it can still be a clunky experience that often needs some improvisation.

Each country has a different development and stability level. Learning how to plan ahead and be aware of this is key to success in travel and safety. As well as understanding how other cultures communicate needs and how corporations are built. Much travel chaos occurred in Italy during my time there during the (frequent) strikes. This left workers taking advantage of people, and all levels of order out the window. Panic buying and long lines ensued. As well as the inhibilty to find anyone to help you. Learning not to panic in high stress and uncertain times, will lead to better self management and money management. Recourse-fullness and having or finding backup plans was a big key takeaway and learning how to swim against the current to get yourself where you need to be. Taking your own route, stopping, observing, figuring out options and not following the herd.

Intercultural communication, trends, art, history, and language. All intertwined aspects of culture and cross cultural understanding.

Studying abroad for most of this past year, I have immersed myself in creative industries, culture, and entrepreneurship. I practiced translating storytelling into visuals that connect across cultures. My time studying abroad was truly the most invaluable, cherished experience of my life. I spent around 4 months in Florence and 3 in Barcelona.

While in Italy I was able to immerse myself into a new culture and language. Which was a wonderful experience, that taught me so many lessons in adaptability and inter cultural communication. It was also a joy to return to Spain. Knowing the language and being able to deeply connect with Barcelona culture and locals was the best experience.

From communicating in my daily life in Spanish, to taking a Spanish literature class where I learned about Catalan culture was an excellent sharpening of my Spanish skills and knowledge.

While abroad I made it my goal to take full advantage of my time and opportunities from travel, to academics, networking and photography.

While in Florence I was able to take in depth, time intensive, photography and art classes. I had the opportunity to develop my technical skills and creative eye. From studio shoots, to creating editorial content and presentation all were wonderful opportunities. I was able to develop my own stylized creative concepts, and direct photo shoots. I learned how to develop film and about the unmatchable quality it offers. Including the opportunity to shoot for a luxury Italian chocolate brand through my professor.

I also traveled to Milan for fashion week where I was credentialed to photograph. My photos were then featured on the fashion brandโ€™s social media.

On my free time I spent time taking solo trips and meeting individuals from across the world. Including meeting local artists in Florence and Barcelona. I developed personal photo project rooted in the local craftsman community, designed custom jewelry pieces inspired by Italian craftsmanship, and balanced my studies in fine arts, business, and media with hands-on creative work.

Living abroad pushed me to adapt quickly, communicate across languages, and push my creativity. Being able to focus on photography and develop my portfolio was a highlight of my time.

As I look ahead, Iโ€™m excited to bring this global, artistic, and cultural-centered perspective into new opportunities.