Battling Spiders and Turtles for my Underwear

When I lived with my host family in China, laundry was a foreign world to me. There were two dryer-looking machines in a small corner of the apartment, but, as far as I could tell they were never used—electricity was too expensive. Not only did I hang dry all my clothes, I washed all my clothes by hand.

For the first week of my stay, my host mother did my laundry for me. I remember the day when my host sister, who was two years younger than me, came into my room and told me I would be doing my own laundry. I smiled—because that’s what you do when people are helping you and you have no idea what they mean—and followed her to the bathroom. When asked if I had washed my laundry before, I hesitated then shook my head. The expression on my sister’s face was priceless. She called my mom, who repeatedly showed me that my wringing abilities were below par. Once again I smiled, slightly exasperated. I was athletic, young…why couldn’t I wash my clothes as well as she?!

Throughout my stay, a slew of laundry problems continued to occur. My sister stood and watched me as I tried to bat a spider off my hanger without dropping it down my shirt, I felt self-conscious when I realized I washed my clothes twice as much as my sister (many Chinese will wear the same clothing two times or more before washing it). My mom (jokingly!) told me I was a naughty daughter when half my underwear dropped from the rafters into the turtle bin. Back to the bathroom sink I went.

Tackling laundry was something I never really thought about before going abroad—I definitely did not expect to battle spiders and turtles for a clean shirt! Laundry proved an interesting experience for a lot of my friends—one student was mortified when she was asked to wash her own underwear. I’m pretty sure she buckled down and washed them—clean clothes are a MUST abroad!

In hindsight, I’m glad I left all my super-nice, super special clothing items at home. Of course, I brought some staples such as my favorite shorts and tanks, but nothing that was fancy material. Since I am going abroad longer this time and will be having a professional internship, I will be bringing slightly nicer clothes, but they will be durable! Anything else I need, I can buy abroad. It’ll be in-style within my country, cheaper, and will definitely be laundry-proof!

Michelle Yeager, OIE Student Worker

What NOT to Wear…

I know I am not the only one who has ever walked around campus completely bemused as to the outfits other students wear. Yes, our lovely Denver weather may fluctuate from a high of 85 degrees one day to snowing the next, but there should be some happy medium between unfortunately flaunting all your ASSets in revealing hot pants or showing of your manly pex in cutoff tees. These are two items that should be discarded immediately from your luggage while packing. That may just be a personal opinion, but from personal experience I can tell you that trying to fit in with the locals should be coordinated with dressing for the SEASON, not the WEATHER.

Actually research the weather of your host country, and even the fashion trends. The easiest way to stick out like a sore thumb is by wearing overly revealing clothing in the wrong season. Yes, it may be warm and sunny outside, but if it’s March and everyone is still wearing scarves, take note and maybe try to cover up a little more.  I am not telling you to completely change your wardrobe, but the key to assimilating and becoming more involved and comfortable within your new host city should start from the outside. Do as the Romans Do! And dress as the Roman’s dress!

Along with appropriate seasonal dressing, take into account that all your DU clothing and any other obviously American items will also make you stick out. I watched a group of American students dressed in flip-flops, alma mater sweatshirts, sweatpants and sideways baseball caps  be escorted off a bus in Rome because they did not buy tickets. The police went to them immediately because they were obviously American by the way they dressed, and stood out from everyone else on the crowded bus.  Be a little daring, try something different, and change up your wardrobe a bit! It will hope you become more in tune with your new city, and will also help bypass a lot of “American” stereotypes.

Jillian Neilson, OIE Peer Advisor