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tour guide to my family

So, I might be slightly behind on my blog, as this was a couple weeks ago, but here we go!

Wow! This semester is just FLYING by. Spring break has arrived, and with it, the adventures it holds. I remember it like yesterday, where I was arriving in Rome to start my new life, but at the same time it feels like I’ve been here for years. I can hardly believe that I went to Prague and Budapest, Florence, Orvieto, Pompeii and Ostia, and other adventures here in Rome and Europe, and I still have so many more!

While my friends traveled around Europe (and Africa), and had exciting adventures, my family came into town, and I spent my spring break reconnecting with my parents and grandma. I showed them my new home and my life around Rome. I showed them my favorite cafe and lunch spot, as well as my favorite spots around the city, to which my dad said, “do you even go to school?” I must admit, studying abroad is 90% travel, and 10% actually studying…

I truly didn’t even realize just how much I missed them, until I was hugging them and never wanting to let go. I loved seeing them again without having a screen between us and catching up on anything and everything. I asked about life at home, and how my brother and dog was, and they asked about my life here, my classes, and my roommates. Further, I was most thankful to enjoy some good (non-Italian or grilled cheese) dinners.

Similarly, my grandma arrived for the second half of my spring break, and we traveled around Italy together. We visited Chianti, San Gimignano, Volterra, and Siena. While the weather wasn’t the best, it was still wonderful seeing new parts of Italy and being with my grandma. She practiced her Italian (which admittedly is better than mine) and used google translate when she couldn’t, even though everyone spoke English.

I loved being able to walk around Rome with her and tell her about the history of this beautiful city. I didn’t even realize that I knew how to get around Rome without directions until I actually was walking! It’s fun to know a city well enough that you know how to get around without the help of technology.

Additional to all the activities I had already done with my grandma, I took her on a tour of the Roman Forum, to which she insisted I present my presentation on the Temple of Julius Caesar to her, which I had presented to my history class a couple weeks earlier. She enjoyed it, and I loved being able to show the history of the Forum and being able to know that I have knowledge of years of history that had occurred.

Lastly, we went on a trip to Tivoli, which is about an hour from Rome, and a town that holds beautiful gardens and scenery. We walked around the city, got lunch, and enjoyed a stroll around the town.

I loved being with my family and having time away from the hustle and bustle that is my school and apartment life. I loved reconnecting with my parents and grandma and being their own tour guide around Rome. It has made me increasingly ready to go home and see them again.

While I’m wanting to go home, I also am really excited for all the things to come, and the new adventures Ill soon be on. After all, I only have 4 weeks left.

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The Stressful Part of Studying Abroad

This past week in Japan has been insightful and a little stressful. First, I went to the local municipal office to register my address. Then, I registered for classes at Waseda. Finally, I went back to Waseda and received my welcome gift and my Waseda ID card. I found these situations quite stressful since I felt lost.

The first thing that was a priority for me was going to the local municipal office to register my address and sign up for Nationwide Health Insurance in Japan. This is something that you must do before anything else. I heard that it was going to be a hassle and a long process. I was told that I could walk into any municipal city office, fill out a form, and they’d help me from there. Simple enough, or so I thought.

When I arrived, I quickly realized I was on my own. I didn’t fully understand the signs, and with my Japanese still being a work in progress, I felt overwhelmed. It took some time just to figure out which form I needed and what the process actually was. Eventually, I learned that after filling out the form, I needed to grab a ticket and wait for my number to be called.

I did just that—but unfortunately, I had filled out the wrong form. That meant starting over from scratch. Thankfully, a staff member kindly handed me the correct form, and I got to work again. After completing it, I grabbed another ticket for what I thought was the correct counter and waited.

When my number was finally called, the worker looked at me with a confused expression. I had taken a ticket for the wrong station. Once again, I had to start over. At that point, I felt defeated. Failing twice made me feel foolish and I honestly just wanted to go home. But I reminded myself that I could figure it out; I just had to keep trying.

I went through the steps again. This time, I got everything right. The staff helped me submit the correct forms and they began processing the registration of my address onto my residence card. It involved even more waiting, and in total, I was there for about two and a half hours. I didn’t mind too much, though; everyone else seemed to be waiting a while too, so it felt like a normal part of the process.

My only real delay was due to my earlier mistakes. Finally, I received my updated residence card and was told I could go. Looking back, it was a stressful experience, but not as bad as it felt in the moment. I learned a lot, and I’m proud of myself for sticking with it.

The next stressful part of this whole journey was class registration. There were so many videos I had to watch and actually understand just to figure out how to register for the right classes. After going through all of them and doing some research on what courses I wanted to take, I finally had a game plan.

Back at DU, registration is super competitive; once your time slot opens, it’s a race to grab your classes, first come, first serve. So, even though Waseda clearly said that registration wasn’t on a first come, first serve basis, I was still really anxious about it. Just out of habit (and panic), I woke up right at 9:00am and registered the moment it opened.

Of course, right after that, I remembered that registration would stay open for two full days, and there was no rush. That realization hit me hard. Instead of knowing right away, I had to wait the full two days to find out if I actually got into the classes I wanted. Thankfully, when the results came in, I did!

After that, I needed to go get my Waseda ID card. I accidentally missed the first day of picking up the ID card, so I went on another day that was available and got it. It was quite easy despite my distress. I was overprepared, which was not a bad thing. I was in and out of the building in 5 minutes.

These struggles kept me on my toes but ended up being an easy process (for the most part). After that, I was able to do some more exploring around the city of Tokyo, so I took the time to do just that and study my Japanese while I was exploring. Despite being by myself, I have had so much fun going to these exciting places and taking pictures. Although it can definitely be a little awkward when asking strangers to take my photo.

I went to a pretty well-known car dealership because I love cars. It was super fun and exciting for me.

Then, I went to the famous Meiji Jingu Shinto Shrine. It was a lot of walking, but I had so much fun.

Finally, for my biggest journey yet, I went to the beach! This was two hours away by train from my place, so I woke up early and started my day. While on the train, I listened to music and practiced my Japanese. Then, I toured around the beach towns and met a really cool older gentleman from Michigan who also studied Japanese and psychology in college. We ended up eating our late lunches together and chatted for 2 hours. I was able to learn so much about his life in Japan, as he had lived in Zushi for 20 years and had so much knowledge to offer. It was a great time.

I feel so lucky to be here and genuinely grateful for the amazing people I’ve had the chance to meet. Everyone’s been so supportive. They often applaud me for doing this on my own, which I really appreciate. Hearing their stories and experiences has been incredibly interesting and eye-opening. I’ve learned so much just from our conversations.

That’s all I’ve got for now; thanks for reading, and see you next time!