The Swedish Culture of Respect and Integrity

Hejhej! As DU and the US steps away from Covid restrictions, I’ve spent the past two months living in a country that (with a lot of international ridicule) never placed a lot of Covid restrictions on its inhabitants. While so much has happened in these two months that it feels like a lifetime, I believe that the omnipresent coronavirus is a good place to start in terms of culture shock I’ve experienced while in Lund. In many ways, the Scandinavian countries have embraced US culture and do a lot to mimic it. Because of this, I haven’t experienced culture shocks very often. But in terms of Covid, Lund and Denver couldn’t be more different. I still receive all of the emails from DU mentioning the return to campus protocols, the flu and covid vaccine requirements, and the underlying effort to mitigate this disease even as we enter a post-covid world. Alternatively, Lund included one paragraph at the end of a welcome email about staying home when sick and that I could chose to wear a mask if I felt more comfortable. Other than this, the university and society hasn’t concerned themselves with requirements or strongly worded advice. While this may seem irresponsible (and some of the Covid case data may support that), talking with Swedes about their coronavirus response has been one of the most insightful conversations into their cultural values. Most Swedes believe that it is the individual’s responsibility to help society and not spread the disease. Instead of the government making demands, it is the people who chose to protect one another.

This social responsibility is something that shows up over and over within Sweden. Beyond the pandemic, I have been shocked at the number of bikes around Lund that aren’t locked. Everyone warns that bike theft is the most common crime, yet the Swedes still leave their bikes unlocked during class or meetings. Why? Because there is a social responsibility to one another. This shows up in even more situations. The Swedish queue is something that other international students and I roll our eyes at, yet Swedes will stoically stand in line with their number for almost anything. One of my friends from class was in an online queue for his apartment in Malmö for 15 months. He didn’t find this strange at all, and was simply happy to get his apartment when he did. Queues exist for small things to, like waiting in line for the bank or for a cash register at the store. You simply walk in, grab your ticket with a number, and patiently wait around until they call your number. I can’t imagine the issues this would cause in the US. Rather than a selfish society focused on what is best for themselves, the Swedes are content to patiently wait so that everyone gets their chance. If I were busier, I could see becoming aggravated by the lack of efficiency within this situation. However, the work-life balance that Sweden embraces means that I have time to wait in line for 30 minutes and that my call can be on hold behind 14 other people.

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This has been the largest culture shock for me during my first two months in Sweden, though interacting with locals helps me understand the benefits of this social responsibility style of interaction. There is something comforting about being surrounded by a community that is looking out for one another in most situations. I believe that this respect also ties into the value that Swedes’ place on integrity. Despite Sweden’s tendency to mimic the US on the surface level, they have managed to maintain their deeper moral values. I look forward to experiencing more of these values as I explore the Swedish culture for the rest of the year! Hejdå!

Introducing Joslyn Hays

What is/are your major(s)?

Environmental Science

What is/are your minor(s)?

History and International Studies

What is the name of your study abroad program?

Lund University Exchange 

In what city & country is your study abroad program located?

Lund, Sweden

What is one thing that you are most anticipating about your study abroad experience?

During my experience, I am most anticipating meeting people with vastly different backgrounds while learning about new cultures. While I am excited to travel around Europe, I am more excited for the adventures that I will have here in Lund with new friends that I meet in class and clubs. I believe that actively learning about a new culture is one of the best ways to engage with your own biases and cultural values in a fun, thought-provoking, and meaningful manner. It is within this sphere of trying new things where I anticipate a lot of personal growth that will make me a better person all around. Essentially, I am looking forward to making new friends (both local and international) while also challenging my beliefs and comfort zone. 

Why did you decide to study abroad? or What inspired you to study abroad?

I have wanted to study abroad for as long as I can remember. Both of my parents and my older sister all studied abroad for a year during their undergrad, and it’s obvious that they all made amazing memories and experienced a lot of growth during that time. I definitely attribute my desire to study abroad to hearing their stories and meeting their best friends from their study abroad experiences. Getting to make life-long friends in another country while you are studying is such a powerful and distinctive experience that I have eagerly anticipated!
On top of following in their footsteps, studying abroad felt like the next logical step for my international experiences. When I was 10, my family lived in Iceland for seven months and I was enrolled in a public school. This experience transformed my perspective on the world and education and I have planned on another chance to study abroad since then. It also got me excited to live in another Nordic country. The summer after my freshman year of high school, I homestayed in Japan for two months. My time there gave me a lot of confidence in terms of my ability to try new things and leaps of faith. After both of these amazing opportunities, I felt that the next step was studying abroad for a year while I pursue my bachelor’s degree. I can use the skills I gained from these past international experiences while developing new memories and undergoing personal growth. 

The photo was from a beach day during my first week in Sweden.