Quite a lot happened during my first week in Kyoto, Japan. When we landed in Osaka, my friends and I took a bus together to Kyoto. After about 3 hours we had to navigate the subway station which was a bit overwhelming—there were so many people, and it was confusing trying to figure out where to go. Being all together helped, as we had each other’s backs when someone got confused about where we were supposed to be or what we were supposed to do.
Eventually, though, we had to split up since I was staying in a different dorm than they were. I got off at a different station and had to figure out how to get to my dorm on my own from there. Walking through the streets with my luggage felt a bit awkward and I was nervous trying to find the building. It was about a 10-minute walk, and once I finally got there, I started getting anxious having to speak with the dorm managers. It felt like 3 years of learning Japanese went out the window, just leaving my mind blank when I actually needed to speak Japanese.
The woman that was showing me around was really kind, though, it felt like I had no reason to worry. She mostly spoke Japanese but would sometimes switch to English for a few words I didn’t understand. She explained things slower if I needed, and I was proud of myself for actually being able to understand most of what she was saying. Later that day, I met up with my friends to shop for some basic necessities—towels, shampoo, conditioner, body wash, face cleanser, food, along with other things. We didn’t really get everything we needed, but since we’re staying in Kyoto for about 5 months, we figured we’ll pick some things up over time.
Besides that, classes haven’t started yet, and they won’t for about another 2 weeks. However, I have already picked up my student ID and attended an information session to get ready for the semester. I’m in a different program from my friends—the GEM program—so I’ve also been reviewing the courses I want to register for. I am also getting ready for my speaking interview for my Japanese placement and making sure I am understanding things I need to do, like getting health insurance.
One thing I had to figure out this week was how to pay the rent for my dorm. That turned out to be really confusing. For a while I went to a few places that didn’t have what I needed, but eventually my friends and I figured it out together—after a bit of trial and error. On the topic of dorms, for a while I did not see any of my dormmates until our dorm orientation. They were all really nice, and even though I’m a shy person, I pushed myself out of my comfort zone and ended up making some new friends.
Aside from all that, I had been exploring on my own sometimes, like what is around my dorm and places further away. I have already gotten lost a couple of times, which can be frustrating not knowing where I’m going, but when that happens, I just take a break, look around the places I am near, and then decide whether to try again or to continue exploring where I am around. Because of that I feel more comfortable using the subway station as I have already gone in a cart going the wrong way, figured out how to change subway stations, seeing which exits are closer to a place I need to go to. It is not bad to get a little lost, actually, as some places I have seen have been really interesting to just walk around.
I have also visited places with my friends like Nanzen-ji Temple and Heian Jingu Shrine, which were both beautiful places—especially during golden hour. We’ve also tried a bunch of new foods, and honestly, everything has tasted amazing so far. We have been planning things day my day, but so far, we have been having a lot of fun just exploring what is around Kyoto.
Besides that, some difficulties I have experienced so far is how hard it is for me to speak Japanese. People speak Japanese quickly, which I am slowly adjusting to, and there are many words that I still do not know. So, it has been quite difficult trying to explain or understand things. However, I am hoping that the more I use it during my 5 months here, the better I will get at speaking Japanese.
Something else I’ve noticed is how tough it is adjusting to the time difference, and I don’t mean this because of my sleep schedule. It’s been hard not being able to text or call friends and family back home whenever I want to, like I normally do. It feels lonely, in a way, having to wait hours for a response back. But now that I’ve made a few new friends at my dorm and I’m hanging out with my friend from DU, I think the feeling of being alone will start to fade as I’m looking forward to exploring more with them too.
