This past week has been another slow one. Classes have been fairly easy so far, but we already have a break coming up for Golden Week, which will be a busier week for me. Since not much happened this week, I thought I would share a little about how I’m feeling now that I’ve been living in Kyoto for over a month.
Overall, I think I’ve adjusted pretty well. I’ve gotten a schedule down — balancing groceries shopping, homework, and finding time to hang out with friends or explore on my own. I’m still working on managing my budget better, especially with all the free time before classes started and now another week off for the holiday. After Golden Week, though, there won’t be any more big breaks for a while so that will help me spend less.
Of course, I still get homesick sometimes. I miss certain foods, my family, and my friends back home. Living on my own can feel lonely at times too. It doesn’t help that I haven’t made many new friends yet. I know I need to be more social if I want to meet people, but I haven’t really asked anyone to hang out yet, so it’s not too surprising. Still, I’ve started talking to a few people from my classes and someone from my dorm, so I’m making small steps.
Even with the moments of feeling homesick and lonely, I’m proud of how much I’ve adapted to the point that Kyoto feels a little like home now. I have places I like to visit occasionally, favorite restaurants I like to go to, and sports on campus where I like to do homework at.
Sometimes on the weekend I will also spend a day explore somewhere new. Like this weekend I visited three different shrines that were each about 20-30 minutes away from each other. Getting out of the room and spending a couple of hours outside really does helps to improve my mood, and I don’t need to spend a lot of money to do so which is a plus.
Looking ahead, I’m hoping to be a little more social. Even just asking someone to grab lunch or study together would be a big step for me. I know making new friendships take time, so I’m trying to be patient with myself.
