The Art of Saying “Yes”

This past weekend, I was able to travel to Amsterdam to explore and experience what the buzz was all about. I was there for a full day alone, and it was such a rewarding and unique experience.

“Solo” Travel

I decided to travel to Amsterdam and spend a few days alone. I thought I would really enjoy it and it would get me out of my comfort zone. I was very right. I arrived afternoon on Thursday, and my boyfriend wasn’t arriving until very very late on Friday.

I am someone who needs to plan everything to the second, but this trip I decided to just “go with the flow.” This made it especially difficult on Thursday as I had no one to explore the city with and no plans. I thought it would give me the freedom to do what I wanted, but it is a lot harder to do so in a brand-new city. I was very homesick, and very lonely, that I just decided to go to bed early and hope for a better tomorrow. Luckily, it was a better tomorrow.

A girl who was staying at my hostel reached out to me to rent bikes together and explore the city. I was very hesitant at first. I would say that I’m social, but only to a certain extent. I thought this was going to be a terrible idea and I would be very awkward and uncomfortable. For those reasons, I said, “omg yes of course I would love nothing more!” We met in the lobby, and right away I knew I was going to have a great day. Kayla – from Australia – was so welcoming, and we hit it off. After a quick coffee chat (where are you from, where are you going type of questions) we set off for our adventure. It was so special learning about what makes her the person she is, and it was funny explaining what college life in USA is like.

This experience was so special and made being “solo” in a big city much more enjoyable. We exchanged contact information, and I am lucky to say that I have a new friend, and I hope she sees me as the same.

Adopted in Amsterdam

Once my boyfriend arrived, I thought our adventure was going to be a lot more structured. I was very mistaken. We didn’t have much planned, except for our boat tour at 12 and brewery tour at 5. On our boat tour, we were the second party on board and sat in the back of the boat with a different family. The parents (around 70s) were visiting their son (40s) who moved from England to Amsterdam. We got several recommendations from the son and after the tour, we were even invited to explore a little bit with them. After being hesitant, we gave in. We followed them around the city, and we ended up at a market that we wouldn’t have come across being alone. We had oysters, bitterballen, and a classic Amsterdam IPA. After a few hours, we finally parted ways.

It was such a special experience, and so much more authentic than we could’ve experienced being just us two. I am not the type of person to go with the flow when traveling, but after this weekend, I can feel myself changing a bit. If we had the entire day booked, we would’ve never tried Poffertjes at the local market. It is funny how saying one simple word can lead to such an adventure.

Next time I feel hesitant to be spontaneous, I will remember these stories – these are what make abroad seem a little less daunting. We all just want friends in a new city 🙂

Arrivederci,

Hadley

Nederlands Weekendje

Bratislava, Prague, Vienna, and Budapest are all day trips from Brno, with Budapest being the furthest and still only a 3-and-a-half-hour drive away. Growing up my family would take road trips to Florida, so from El Paso to the east end of Texas was a 12-hour drive, and California was closer to us than Dallas. Even driving up to Denver from El Paso is about 10 hours. The drive from Brno, Czech Republic to Amsterdam, Netherlands is just over 10 hours. Taking advantage of the easy transportation system and time between countries and iconic cities is a must. Visiting other friends in different countries is also a huge perk of studying abroad, especially when you’re in Central Europe.

Nederlands
Lise, Fleur and I taking a selfie in the Interactive Art rooms at the MOCO Museum in Amsterdam.

I am fortunate to have a high school friend living outside of Eindhoven, Netherlands. I took a two-hour bus from Brno to the Vienna Airport and a two-hour flight from Vienna to Amsterdam. Fleur, my native-to-Holland friend, met up with me at the Airport and we got to catching up quickly. After an afternoon spent exploring pieces of Amsterdam, we caught a train to Eindhoven that was about an hour long, followed by a 15-minute drive to Aarle-Rixtel, her hometown. I think at this point of my study abroad experience I might have been starting to have some homesickness, but being able to spend time with someone from high school truly cured it. It was also insane to see the house and town she grew up in when I had only known the “US version” of Fleur and her home. 

While we were in Amsterdam, we took a boat ride through the canals while eating cheese and drinking wine. The boat guides explained some of the history of Amsterdam and went through their silly but true anecdotes. One thing that stuck out was the fishing hooks that extended from most building’s roofs. The buildings along the city’s canal system were all built to be commercial buildings and factories. They were also built at an angle leaning forward, with large hooks that could drop down to the canal to pick up cargo to take up to the top floor through the window. Most of these buildings now house people as flats, and oddly enough some now lean to the sides due to structural decline. A quarter of the country is below sea level, and the water flowing throughout the country is beautiful. The man-made and maintained spots still complement its surroundings visually. Throughout the entirety of the weekend it was on and off rain, which Fleur remarked as being the norm in the weather and sometimes annoying as she bikes most places.

Nederlands
Waiting to get on a wine and cheese boat tour in front of the Central Station in Amsterdam. The boat ride was about an hour long and went through the city center. The tour guides said that each year at least a meter of the 3-meter deep canal is filled with bikes that fall in from the streets.
Nederlands
Some buildings close to the city center have hooks extending from the roof. These hooks are still used for moving furniture into apartments through the windows, even couches as long as they fit!
Nederlands
My “fancy” dinner at Stout in Aarle-Rixtel. The appetizer (top) is a fish dish with creamy flavors and Cranberry. The entree (middle) was a buttery pheasant with gnocchi. The dessert was a black pepper, lemon, and chocolate mix.

During my time in the Netherlands, I was able to visit the Cat Museum (Museum of Cat-based Art) and Modern Contemporary Art Museum, which is home to creations by artists like Bansky, Keith Haring, Basquiat, and Warhol. I was able to eat my first “fancy” meal that was served in courses and each was a curated meal the chef came out with seasonally. I got to experience a Dutch night out in Eindhoven, check out what grocery store snacks are available in the Netherlands, and see the most bicycles (+electric bikes and cars) I’ve ever seen in my life. Even though it was only 3 days, it was a “gezellig” visiting the Netherlands and reuniting with a friend to explore her little part of the world.

(Gezellig is a Dutch adjective, similar to cozy/fun/pleasant/sociable)

After I leave Masaryk I really hope to keep in contact with the other exchange students so I can have places to stay throughout most of Europe and other parts of the world. Being in someone’s hometown is so helpful in understanding them and getting to enjoy how they live in their own spaces. The ability to travel to different countries at a decent price and get to new destinations quickly has been a huge bonus to studying in Europe, and it can help you make friends that can house you in new places all over. I also really really hope to have more creative curated culinary dishes in different countries now because of how delicious of an experience it was.