Take My Word For It – Do’s + Don’t’s While Abroad

DO…

  • Participate in all the events and trips offered through your program and university—especially if they’re included in tuition! 🏛️
    • Most of the time, these events will be led by individuals who live in your study-abroad city or are full-time students at your university, both of whom can offer valuable perspectives on your new home! This past week I participated in a guided tour of the Acropolis and Acropolis Museum, a downtown Athens tour, and a Greek Delicacies taste-testing event. I sometimes felt like a stereotypical tourist, but I saw so many beautiful ancient sites, made new friends, and got three free meals. Go to everything!
  • Prioritize your mental + physical health. 🚶‍♀️
    • I am someone who LOVES their alone time. Being with my friends and meeting new people is something I really enjoy, but I know that I have to spend time alone during the day to keep my social battery charged. The first week made me feel like I needed to be doing something new at every moment. I was getting tired and anxious quick. If you have things you do that make you feel balanced, don’t stop doing them while you’re abroad just because you have FOMO (the fear of missing out.) Be alone for a bit, sleep, read, go for a walk. You’ll be better off in the long run!
  • Ask for help when you need it. 🙋🏻‍♀️
    • Being somewhere new, where you may not speak the language or have a great understanding of the alphabet is difficult. At dinner last week a group of friends and I needed to use the bathroom but couldn’t find it due to all the signage being in Greek. The other girls I was with wanted to give up, but I asked a waitress for help. She smiled when she explained it was hidden upstairs. I doubt we would’ve found it on our own. Just because the locals might seem intimidating doesn’t mean they won’t help you when you’re confused.
  • Explore locally before jetsetting. 🚲
    • For the first few weeks of being abroad, try to get acquainted with the city and country you’re studying in before venturing to other places. As tempting as it is to spend every free minute exploring a new city, especially between European countries where travel is quick & cheap, take time to learn about your home base. I personally am spending this weekend looking for independent bookstores in Athens that I can revisit again and again. I’m excited to be familiar with this city!
  • Remember to stay grateful. 🩷
    • So many people do not have the time, money, or capacity to travel away from their homes or university for a variety of reasons. This is a once-in-a-lifetime experience for most students, myself included. I keep pinching myself when I realize that I am in the home of Western culture, furthering my education, meeting new people, and learning about myself. I’m sure I’m not the only one. I’m learning that having stamps in my passport by choice is an unbelievable privilege and honoring that makes this whole experience brighter.

DON’T…

  1. Be scared if you get lost. 🗺️
    • As long as your phone is charged and you’re in (what feels like) a safe neighborhood, don’t panic if you get turned around! I took the wrong bus by myself yesterday and ended up 2.5 miles away from campus in a completely unfamiliar area. While I initially freaked out, I quickly realized that I could use the opportunity to explore the neighborhood I was in. It ended up being a lovely late afternoon walk, and although I was sweaty by the time I got to class, I was glad I had adventured out.
  2. Eat out every single night. 🍽️
    • Going out to try local restaurants is fun, but going to the grocery store and making meals with new ingredients is just as exciting – try local foods! Greece has wonderful fresh fruit, olive oil, cheese, and honey, and that’s all I’ve been eating for dinner. It acclimates your stomach to the cuisine and helps your budget, too!
  3. Treat school like a joke. 📝
    • If you’re like me and love being in the front row of every class and involved in every club, don’t let being abroad change that. Professors everywhere love it when students are engaged, regardless of whether you’re there for four months or four years. Being engaged in your university can be just as much of a cultural experience as traveling, so don’t let it fall by the wayside. (I promise DU didn’t push me to say this. I’m just really into school. 🤓)
  4. Let the time difference impact your relationships at home. 🕰️
    • Make an effort to call your parents, partners, and friends at home! Texting and social media are convenient, but the people who love you miss your physical presence… and when the adrenaline wears off, you’ll start to miss theirs, too. Make new friends, but don’t forget to make time for home, too.
  5. Smile at strangers. 🙊
    • This really is an American habit, and you will get weird looks if you smile at strangers on the sidewalk or in public. I never realized how much I did it until I got here and the greeting was not returned…

Bittersweet Goodbyes Make Exciting Hellos

Hi everyone! I’ve been itching to start sharing my study-abroad experiences here but that would have been hard to do seeing as I just left for my program this morning! Since I can’t yet share stories of ancient sites or amazing food, I thought I’d ruminate on some goodbyes I’ve had to do recently. My nine-hour layover in Montreal today has given me ample time to sit with all the complex emotions of leaving home for such a big adventure and I hope you find some shared sentiments here, whether you’ve strayed far from home before or stayed close.

I’m no stranger to being away from home. I spent 12th grade living in the dorms of my high school (where I previously had been a commuter student) to prepare for college life. This ended up being the training wheels I needed because I decided to come to the University of Denver which is roughly 2,000 miles away from my hometown in Pennsylvania. I, like so many other students, knew that I wanted to go away for school, but unlike others, I always knew it was going to be an emotionally difficult transition. Noah Kahan’s “You’re Gonna Go Far” has pretty much been on repeat in my head for the last four years.

I’m an only child of a single father with whom I’m extremely close and who has been my best friend + biggest supporter my whole life. I’ve also been blessed with friends who support me wholeheartedly no matter what. Coming to Denver is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made, but the goodbyes every winter and summer break don’t get easier, I just get more used to them. Walking through security at the airport this morning felt like that but a million times bigger.

I’ve never left home for four months before. I certainly haven’t spent months in another country aided only by two comically large suitcases an ocean away. A seven-hour time difference, a totally new culture, and signage in an ancient language I will attempt to learn two days a week at 8:00am is a complete 180° from what my life normally looks like. Change is good and constant, but it is scary, too.

As trepidatious as I may sound, though, I am excited. Maybe even more than excited. As I take a break from pacing the International Departures Terminal at YUL to kill time, I look at all the departures happening around me, hear destinations I’ve never been to, and realize how little of the world I’ve seen (and I’ve been blessed to see more than many others.) Even though the last two weeks have been full of teary goodbyes, they have reminded me of all the “hello’s”, familiar and not, that I am going to experience in the upcoming months. It has been, and will always be, a privilege to have things in my life that make saying goodbye so hard.

Next stop: Athens!