Fate, Culture, and Slang

One thing that I am particularly grateful for from studying abroad is the people. I have met so many great people that I wouldn’t have been able to otherwise. I find it amazing that people from all over the world, despite their different backgrounds, can share so much in common and somehow cross paths in a remote city in an unexpected country. It puts everything into perspective; we truly are all so similar and so different, and how beautiful is that!

I am learning so much about other cultures as well, something that I previously didn’t understand the depth of. One of my close friends here is from Northern India. She shares the complexities of her country and culture with me, showing me how India is far different from the way my Western perspective might have imagined it. We often exchange stories about out different homes, and yet always find something in common. It’s fate!

Although Australian culture is somewhat similar to American culture, it’s really fun to search out the subtle differences. I especially love when I find a word that is pronounced differently, or a fun new slang word. Here’s my working list:

  • Ranga – Someone with red hair
  • Jumper (Pronounced Jumpa) – Sweater/sweatshirt
  • Aussie (Pronounced Auzzie) – An Australian person
  • Bogan – Australian version of a redneck
  • Bottle-o – Liquor store
  • Op shop – Thrift store
  • Mozzies – Mosquitoes
  • Bathers – Swimsuit
  • Thongs (also called pluggers) – Flip flops
  • Car park – Parking lot
  • Servo – Gas station
  • Snag – Hotdog wrapped in bread
  • Bangers and Mash – Mash potato and sausage
  • Crikey – said when something surpising happens
  • Eskys – Cooler for food and drinks
  • Howzat – usually shouted, and used when something good happens in a sports game
  • Reckon – Often used as a way to say ‘think’ or suggest something (Ex: I think we should go. I reckon we should go.)
  • Keen – A way to say that you would be up for something (Ex. She would be happy to come! She would be keen to come!)
  • Mocha (pronounced Maka)
  • Tuesday (pronounced Chewsday)
  • ‘Oh’ is pronounced as ‘Ah’ (Ex: Oh, okay! Ah, okay!)

Anyways, I am having the best time here. I know that I still have a couple more months until I go home, but I never want to leave! Being here has really opened my eyes to new people, places, and ways of life. Reminder: there is beauty in everything and everyone! Take the time to enjoy it!

Me and my friend enjoying a ride through Perth

Taking Care of Yourself in a Different Country

It’s easy to get swept up in the rush of things; when you’re traveling abroad, everything feels fresh and exhilarating. The sights, the sounds, the flavors—every moment presents an opportunity for discovery. Sure, it’s important to immerse yourself in new experiences, to say “yes” to adventure, and to embrace spontaneity. However, in the whirlwind of excitement, it’s just as easy to lose yourself in the chaos. Between the fast-paced itineraries, cultural differences, and the constant push to make the most of every second, you might find yourself feeling overwhelmed or disconnected.

Last weekend, I decided to have a “me” day, and honestly, it was the best decision I could have made. I locked myself in my room, put on some of my favorite movies, ordered takeout, and just let myself unwind. No plans, no obligations—just me, doing whatever felt good in the moment. It was exactly what I needed to re-center and reconnect with myself.

I’ve realized that when I don’t carve out time for myself, I start to feel overwhelmed and anxious, like I’m constantly running on empty. And if you’re someone who thrives on social interaction or adventure, it can feel like you should always be out and about, especially when you’re in a new country. But here’s your reminder: It’s okay to stay in. It’s okay to take a step back, recharge, and just exist. Whether you’re traveling or at home, prioritizing your well-being isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.

So, from now on, I’ve made it a goal to dedicate at least one day a week to myself—to do whatever I want, completely on my own. No schedules, no obligations, just me choosing what makes me happy in the moment.

That following Tuesday, I put my plan into action. I hopped on the bus, put on some good music, and let the world fade into the background. I treated myself to a mango and papaya smoothie (which, by the way, was amazing), then made my way to the beach. There, I sat in the sun, listened to the waves, and let myself just be. I even spent some time collecting seashells, something I hadn’t done in ages but found incredibly peaceful.

It was a simple day, but it was exactly what I needed—a reminder that solitude isn’t lonely when you enjoy your own company. Taking time for yourself isn’t just a luxury; it’s a necessity. And I’m excited to keep this promise to myself, week after week.