When in Rome…

I’ve been on a number of trips since I arrived in Florence almost four months ago, but I want to dedicate this post to my adventures in Rome. Before I get into the details, I should pay homage to the train system in Italy. Every weekend is a perfect opportunity to take a cheap day trip and compare the intricate differences between Florence and other cities in Italy. Prices for roundtrip tickets usually range from 25 to 60 euros. Here’s a video of the train window view from Rome back to Florence. Isn’t Tuscany gorgeous?

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One of my favorite weekends I’ve had was when my friend Kayla (who graduated DU this past year) visited me. She had just come from two months of yoga school in India and she was astonished to be walking around Florence and Rome. It was so interesting to hear her comparisons to Varanasi, the holy city of India. It is a beautiful city and she’s grateful to have experienced the culture surrounding Hinduism, but she was excited for a change of pace. There, women are strongly advised not to show much skin and even go out at night, alcohol is banned, and each day she had to set out a considerable chunk of time to pass through herds of people on the streets. One funny little shock that got her on the streets of Italy was how cars wouldn’t stop for her. She almost got run over in the middle of the street once! Apparently you can count on the cars and motorcycles to stop once you’re a couple feet away in Varanasi. I told her Italian drivers couldn’t care less, or just don’t notice you because they’re busy shuffling around for their next cigarette. A definite downside for me and her both was how expensive Rome was, even compared to Florence. While the city was still incredible to take in, it was kind of like Florence on steroids for me. For Kayla, the architecture and people’s behavior were a complete culture shock and she was freaking out.

She made me remember the initial wanderlust I had when I first arrived, and renewed my sense of gratitude to be in Europe in general. On a quick sidenote, I’ve found that the mindsets of the people I surround myself with have probably had the biggest influence on my study abroad experiences – both negative and positive.

The first spot Kayla and I wandered to was completely unexpected and beautiful; a giant park in the shape of a heart named Villa Borghese. We ventured through flower gardens and grasslands to end up canoeing ourselves around a little duck pond. Complimenting the occasional little cafes and museums stood ancient Roman temples and statues. We accidentally spent hours roaming around the park and it wasn’t even on our itinerary! We even returned on Sunday and got to enter an art gallery for free. It was the coolest museum I think I’ve ever been too, and it had nothing to do with Roman history, but the only way I can describe it is possibly the meaning of life. The exhibit held different paintings and immersive techno art that posed questions about the universe that Kayla and I tried to answer for at least an hour. Anyways, we enjoyed our last moments in the park, which I really soaked up because it’s tough to access such abundant nature in Florence. That’s one thing I’ve struggled with over these past few months… the good parks in Florence are about a 25 minute walk from where I live, so sometimes the city can feel a little suffocating. Seeing a forest of trees turning red and orange in Villa Borghese reminded me how much I missed the changing of seasons.

Now a review of the Colosseum and Roman Forum, nothing too special. The tickets were free because it was a Sunday, and the line for the Colosseum was only 20 minutes — a sweet surprise, but made enough sense for late November. Making our way through the Colosseum was surreal, especially after reading some of the information panels in the exhibit. Did you know they pitted lions against bears and gathered the city to watch them fight each other to death? They also held one-on-one gladiator duels and executions for everyone to cheer to. In fact, almost all of the activities in the Colosseum were pure violence. I took it upon my shoulders and dared myself to perform the riff-off from Pitch Perfect in an effort to heal this historical truth. I would show you the video, but it’s actually pretty embarrassing because I got shy at the end. It was hard to secure a spot without people behind me but don’t worry, I managed to weasel my way through the moving crowd to the railing overlooking the stage. I even stopped a small group of fans/observers amidst the unbothered swarmers. I don’t know guys, I just really wanted to be able to say I performed at the Colosseum. When in Rome! Right next to the Colosseum was the Roman Forum, the most mind blowing experience of the trip. It’s described as an ancient site for religious and secular spectacles and ceremonies, housing ruins of important temples and monuments. It took an hour to walk all the way through, and it felt like I had entered a portal and been frozen in time. I highly, highly recommend. Sorry I couldn’t get the most accurate pictures, I got a little lost in the moment.

The last site I will give a shout out to is the Trevi Fountain. If you’re a Roman/Greek mythology fan, I hope you get to visit Rome at least once in your life — especially this grandiose fountain. It’s dedicated to one of the aqueducts that supplied the city with water, portraying Oceanus (or Poseidon, the god of the ocean) and other supporting characters. His horses are guiding him through the sea, one horse going buckwild and the other poised and steady. The horses represent the contrasting moods of the waters, and philosophers might say the opposing forces of life too. It was refreshing to enjoy a celebrated work of sculpture and architecture that had nothing to do with Christianity — just mythology, water and a little Roman history. Not that I have anything against Christianity, but I have probably seen a hundred different portrayals of Jesus on the cross at this point and it was interesting to see something completely unrelated.

After two nights, my friend came to a conclusion about both Varanasi and Rome: the locals are genuinely interested in the American life, and surprisingly not in a way that is making fun. I would definitely attach that sentiment to Florence as well. The people are quite friendly and I’ve noticed myself to be way more judgmental of where I come from than they ever could be. Sometimes the men are a little too friendly, so you have to be weary. More so than in America… but it’s almost better that their intentions are exposed right off the bat, if you get what I mean. After a few months in Florence, I thought I had gotten used to the average Italian man’s straight-forward nature, but Rome was a whole other level. I think it’s because they’re not used to seeing American tourists out at night; in Florence I would argue I see more Americans than Italians out because of the overwhelming study abroad population. It was pretty enlivening to be apart of Italian nightlife and not recognize a single American soul; I’ve been yearning for that level of cultural authenticity. I did however, miss the walkability of Florence. Rome is much larger and Ubers in Italy are more often than not unreliable, so I adventured a little farther than I enjoyed but it’s fine because I ran into the Colosseum again. Rome is crazy like that. Alright, that’s all I wanted to share. Thanks for reading this far!

Memories with Mom

There is something so special about experiencing pieces of the world with people you love. Especially when you are experiencing the world for the first time together. Having my mom here in Europe truly made that week the best week of my study abroad trip. Our week started in Vienna, moved to Budapest, took a pitstop in Brno, traveled to Prague, and came to a rest back in Brno. My mom had always wanted to visit Vienna, Budapest, and Prague so being able to have the memories of seeing these cities for the first time with her is always going to be significant to me. I’m blessed to be her daughter and was able to take her to these places (via Flixbus, but nonetheless.)

My mom is one of my best friends and I never saw us traveling together on this level. Juarez, Mexico really doesn’t count as international travel with the quick drive from El Paso. When growing up, my family would do road trips, but they stopped when my sisters and parents all became busy and went their own directions. My parents had both explored parts of the world while they served in the Military, and my mom traveled to Asia for her first international vacation before COVID. But this is the first year of my life owning a passport and having the privilege to go to new countries. Pieces of me always knew that in my family (out of my sisters and extended family) I was the one that was most likely to spend extended amounts of time in different countries, but I thought it would be later in life and not really with other family members. 

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In front of the extremely gothic-looking Votive Church in Vienna, Austria. One of our favorite spots in Vienna.

In Vienna, we started with Viennese coffee close to the city center. My mom prefers to sip tea, but it was important to me to taste the coffee as the city’s cafe culture is big. Our AirBnb in Vienna was the best, location-wise it was close to the center but in a quiet area and in general just well decorated with cute courtyards. Our time spent in Vienna included a lot of walking to sightseeing spots in the cold, popping into cafes and churches for warmth, and listening to the culture. Vienna is filled with the sounds of its creatives – like Mozart, Beethoven, or Strauss and we were able to enjoy a concert at the Schonbrunn Palace. 

My mom and I are the type of people who are obsessed with the architecture, design, and goldenness of Cathedrals in Europe – even though never having seen them beforehand. We love to see what we missed out on during our masses because of the lazy modern designs of a majority of churches in the US. During the entirety of this trip, we peeked into every church in sight until we were “church-ed” out. 

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Selfie of my mom and I in front of the Parliament building in Budapest, Hungary while on a river cruise of the Danube river.

In Budapest, our Sunday night was greeted by champagne and a snack board on a river cruise between Buda and Pest. This tour’s views highlighted how beautiful Budapest is at night- the lights illuminating the Parliament building and Buda Castle in the darkness make the city seem so endearing. So many spots just felt so modern-day fairytale-like, especially when desserts (dobos cake) and hot chocolate were served (ordered) in excess. We visited one of the major thermal baths, which looked ethereal but felt grimy- I regretted not going to the one that was outdoors, but the cold was threatening to my mom and me. I was proud that I was able to get my mom out to the bars during our trip and I’m glad she also wanted to see what pieces of European nightlife was like. The ruins and bars in Budapest are appealing tourist spots and such a cool use of space, I would recommend anyone and everyone to visit. 

Prague provided us with artistic views and sights, with the Banksy Museum, the Museum of Illusions, The Lennon Freedom Wall, and mosaics from Cathedral windows reflecting on marble columns. I was able to take my mom to an absinthe bar that was across the street from our Hotel, which also was decorated with art to the heavens. While my mom was in the Czech Republic, we shared several traditional Czech dishes and talked about learning to make some of them at home to remember the trip. 

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Interior of the Green Flamingo Absinthe Bar in Prague, Czech Republic. We tried white absinthe that was properly prepared and demonstrated by the bartender.
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One of the many stained glass mosaics in the St. Vitus Cathedral is located on the walls of the Prague Castle.
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Reflection of mosaic to the left on the columns of the Cathedral.

I’m blessed to have been able to go to these places and experience these pieces of the world with my mom. I’m even more grateful that I was able to watch her experience these cities for the first time. Having her come visit me during my time studying abroad only made my last year of undergrad more special and will forever be a core memory from my 20s. She is the reason I went to college, and went abroad, and also why I am able to function as a person most of the time.