Location to Locals: Dubrovnik, Croatia

The Trip That Almost Did Not Happen

Location: Dubrovnik, Croatia

You will all see and read in a later blog why there was a very real chance I would not have been able to go on this trip – but that’s a story for another time. A few years ago, my parents began a tradition of traveling to a new European country each summer and exploring for at least three weeks. I can say with the utmost certainty that my love and desire for adventure and travel comes straight from them. Their first location that sparked this tradition was Ireland, followed by Greece, and this past summer Croatia. On their Croatia trip, they drove up and down the coast, stopping in cities such as Zadar, Split, and their personal favorite – Dubrovnik. Ever since hearing their Dubrovnik stories, and seeing my mom’s Instagram posts, it instantly became the number one place I knew I had to visit while abroad.

Funny enough – and this ties right back to that “late blog” story – my mom ended up joining my friends and me on our Dubrovnik trip. We flew in on a Wednesday afternoon (yes, we all skipped school) and left Saturday morning, much to our dismay. The trip overall was much pricier than we had anticipated, mostly due to our eating and spending time in the touristy areas, where meals ranged from 30 to 40 euro and drinks around 15. We quickly learned our lesson.

Because of an injury, I was not able to join my friends on their speed boat tour of the caves, so my mom and I decided to explore and do a guided tour of the walls. Yes… those walls – the ones featured in many scenes of the infamous Game of Thrones television series. Together, we climbed more than 600 steps, walking around the entire perimeter of Dubrovnik’s Old Town that is covered in orange tiles molded by the thighs of the women who once lived there. Although I am not much of a history buff, the history of the city was incredible, topped with my skyline view of the entire city to my left and sparkling Adriatic sea view to my right. It might have been one of the most touristy things to do, but it was truly incredible.

Visiting Dubrovnik, Croatia was not just another tally in countries I have visited, it was a dream-come-true. Despite being strapped in a medical brace, it reminded me and revived my love of travel and exploration.

BEAAMMS Was Born

Locals: Pile-Kono Mountain

Our Airbnb sat on the hill just outside Dubrovnik’s Old Town, meaning that every trip in and our required an uber. While talking to one of our drivers, he told us that he had his own business – a small company called Simply H. H – as he told us to call him – offered us a discounted tour of the three most beautiful photo spots according to Croatian locals. Given that there were 8 of us and one of him, we decided to take him up on his offer. After spending a couple hours exploring Old Town, we met him outside the Pile Gate and to begin our local tour.

The first stop made us a little skeptical. He pulled the car over on the side of the rode and gave us only a few minutes to take pictures of… a bridge; yes, a bridge overlooking the water. Was the view beautiful? Yes, but it was not considered a ‘local spot’ like we were expecting. The next spot filled us with more hope – a run-down barn with a small waterfall in the background. I have to admit, it was like nothing I had ever seen. The sun cast a bright glow over everything, creating the illusion of shimmering air, and the surplus of water made the plants lush and green, and the river alive with fish. None of us wanted to leave but had to in order to catch the sunset at our final stop.

Driving up a two-way road barely wide enough for one car, we arrived at the top of a mountain overlooking the entire Old Town city, the hill surrounding it, and the Adriatic bordering the entirety of Croatia. It was something of a painting with the island perfectly placed in the sea, the sky painted with hues of pink, purple, yellow, and blue, and a mountain covered in fresh plants and rosemary leaves. After taking the mandatory “I was here” photos, my friends and I stood in a line and took a moment of gratitude.

The weeks leading up to this trip had been a blur of hospital visits and doctor’s appointments, but that all seemed to melt away at that moment. I was joined by my best friend – my mom – and the girls I had grown closest to abroad. Everything was perfect at that moment.

It was there, on the Pile-Kono Mountain, that we came up with a word to describe something that simply cannot be described by ordinary adjectives. An acronym for all our names: Bridgette, Em, Alex, Avery, Maddie, Michelle, Sophie. Just like that, BEAAMMS was born.

Halfway Reflections

Amidst the chaos of cramming for my midterms, I realized that aside from the tests I would have, this week marked the halfway period of my abroad experience! Before I came abroad, I got advice from anyone and everyone- I just wanted to be prepared. The one thing that I kept hearing was “Abroad will fly by in the blink of an eye!”. 

If you had asked me my thoughts on this the first week here, I would have said that it couldn’t feel further from the truth. I missed my routine at home. I missed my favorite Trader Joe’s items. I missed watching Brooklyn 99 with my mom at night. I missed being able to drive over to my friends house in just 3 minutes. The days felt like they were going painfully slow- although I loved all of the time to go indulge in aperol spritzes and gelato, I felt like there were gaps in my day that were impossible to fill. 

Now, just 8 weeks later, I cannot believe that I only have 7 weeks left in Florence. I have built a whole life for myself here. I have optimized my “plan of attack” for getting in and out of Conad (our local grocery store), gotten into a routine of walking along the river every morning and listening to a podcast. I have made new friends who I couldn’t imagine life here without. Although I could be sad and pout about the fact that I only have so much time left, I want to try to squeeze every last moment I can out of Florence!

Here are some of the things I would want to tell my week 1 self:

Just say hi! Going up to people from DU that I recognized during orientation events, even if it was something that I felt a little nervous doing ended up being one of the best decisions! It is how I met new friends that I now get to travel with almost every weekend!

Go out of your comfort zone! For a naturally introverted person like me, it can feel super scary to push myself out of my comfort zone. But doing small things like speaking up a lot in class build up confidence over time and make things like class presentations feel more manageable. Going on a solo trip felt extremely daunting, but I booked one to Scotland and it ended up being my favorite part of fall break! It was something that a year ago I could never imagine myself doing, but I was so proud of myself for!

Incorporate pieces of home! Things that I regularly do at home- like going on long walks, baking, and water coloring are all things that I have added into my daily life here in Florence that give me not only something fun to do, but make me feel more at home. 

Focus on your life! With many of the people that I follow on social media also being people from DU traveling abroad, I really struggled with comparing my life to what I was seeing on Instagram. People would be traveling to far-flung corners of Europe, while I was staying in Florence for a weekend to get adjusted to my new surroundings. I couldn’t help but feel a sense of FOMO, which all of my friends know, is something I struggle with- even at DU. I decided to delete Instagram and TikTok off of my phone, so I wouldn’t find myself scrolling every free moment I had and instead could only look at them on my iPad during time I dedicated to being on a screen. 

Don’t be afraid to ask for help! This in perticular is something I have always struggled with. However, in a country where things can be completely different, asking for help can make all the difference. For example, I needed to find batteries at the grocery store last week for a food scale. I wandered to where I thought they would be and after not seeing them, I decided to ask a cashier for help on where to locate them. It did take me a moment to find them (included me mistakenly walking into the store bathroom) but with more help and a few laughs, I made it back to my apartment, AA batteries secured.

Embrace down time! This last takeaway may be the most impactful for me. Back at DU, I would schedule my days down to the minute, planning what I was going to eat, what clothes I would wear and most importantly, having something to do so that I would not feel that I was being “lazy” by having free time. However, an Italian motto that I was told on the first day of being abroad was “piano piano”. It means to take things slowly. The Italian way of life is one that embraces taking breaks- from afternoon relaxation time where shops close to the people meandering through the streets (opposed to my speed walking around). I have loved having time where everyone is relaxing, so I don’t feel as though I am not doing as much as my peers at any given moment. 

As I am writing this, I am just returning from my week-long fall break that took me to Switzerland, Scotland, and the Netherlands, so look out for a recap of that trip soon!

Arrivederci,

Caroline