Author: hadleyway

My study abroad program, Lorenzo de’ Medici, offers a collection of different “field trips” that the students can choose from and experience. This past weekend, I chose to attend a field trip that took me to Lake Garda, Verona, Pinzolo, and Madonna di Campiglio. I can say that the experience and the friends I made was well worth it.

We left at 6 am on Saturday morning and started driving north towards Lake Garda. Our supervisors were very informative and kept us well-knowledgeable of the places we were visiting. Lake Garda was so so beautiful; we spent an hour exploring before we had to meet back on the bus. We walked along the water, around town, and then found a cute café to have a sweet treat. We then got back on the bus and headed towards Verona – it wasn’t in our itinerary but I was SO happy they threw that in there. We had to stop here for a “lunch break” but the first place I made sure to go to was Juliet’s balcony. Juliet’s balcony and courtyard is free to enter, but the museum itself costs money. My friends and I had lunch nearby and then we got onto the bus to head to our final destination of the day – Pinzolo. Here, we stayed at the cutest little mountain lodge and had dinner at the hotel with everyone on our trip. It was so fun meeting new people and making new friends at dinner! In the morning, we also had breakfast at the hotel before heading to Madonna di Campiglio. We arrived around 9 am and started our 5-hour hike through the Dolomites. It was so so beautiful and we had a few guides that led us through the hike. From waterfalls, to mountain views, to a poisonous snake, the adventure was well worth it.

The field trips may seem like a steep price to pay, but the experience and friends that I made along the way was very well worth it. I met a lot of people from LdM that I have never talked to before and we all bonded very quickly. I also became closer to some girls that are from Denver that I am very thankful for. Because I went without my roommates, this trip forced me to get out of my comfort zone, with both the activities and meeting new people. I encourage other people that are studying abroad to take advantage of these trips provided by programs. It was so exciting seeing a part of Italy I probably wouldn’t have seen without it!

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We all experience long distance relationships when we go to college. We are long distance with our family and friends from home, and then long distance with college friends over holiday breaks. My biggest obstacle I’ve had to overcome so far is keeping those relationships alive with a 6+ hour time difference.

Family

My family is the biggest part of my identity. I am a mosaic of everyone that has raised me. This has been the hardest part of studying abroad. I call my mom almost every day in Denver, walking back from class at night. In Florence, I can only call her when our schedules line up – which is not very often. Sometimes, it also slips my mind. I text her throughout the day, even when she doesn’t respond, but it is hard not to fill her in on everything. This has taught me to be more independent and appreciate the time I spend with her – either on the phone or in person. I also keep my dad busy with a million pictures a day – although it is usually just pictures of dogs and animals I see. My aunt, grandparents, and cousins have been equally supportive with texts and occasional calls. My cousin, Maisie, studied abroad for 6 months in Chile. I’ve been texting and talking to her because she can understand and give advice my parents aren’t able to do. I feel significantly closer to my family because I have been in communication with them more since I have realized how valuable it is. Sending pictures back and forth helps them have a glimpse of my life and vice-versa.

Friends

Alongside my family, my friends are a very important part of my life. I am lucky to be traveling and living with some here, and even creating more friendships during these first few weeks, but it is still important to maintain the relationships back at home and college. When it comes to my hometown friends, it makes me very happy when we chat. Since my friends from DU are mostly all studying abroad, it is easier to talk to them than my hometown friends. When I wake up in the morning, my hometown friends are usually going to bed, and vice-versa. Although we haven’t scheduled a time to sit down and video chat with everyone, I stay up-to-date with their daily lives through videos and pictures they send. They are all so supportive and curious about my life here, and it reminds me how special I am to have such meaningful connections with people, no matter how far away we are. When it comes to my friends from college, it is so so exciting to see and follow along with everything they are up to! From Europe to Australia to South America, it is so special to see everyone’s experiences and it makes me just as excited to see them back at DU. I have trips planned with different people in different places – I am so lucky to be able to create memories with people I love in different cities!

Significant Others

The classic scenario when “long distance relationship” is mentioned. I think it is important to touch on how being in a relationship with someone in a different country has shaped my abroad experience so far – in a good way. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 8 months. We started dating right before decisions for study abroad were made and we both decided to go to different places. We didn’t talk about our decisions together, because we were fresh in our relationship. Over time, it became hard to grasp the fact that we are both going to be in different cities and have to do long distance for 6 months. Now, I wouldn’t change a thing. He will be in Barcelona while I am in Florence, and both will grow independently but together. I have been in Italy for a month before he goes to Barcelona, and the 8-hour time difference has been a lot easier than I thought. It has helped me really understand how I adjust and fit into the city, being able to explore and fill him in on it later in the evening. We call once a week, telling each other everything that has happened, and it is so much fun. I know that everyone has their own opinion on long-distance relationships, but I believe it is very easy with the right person. I am looking forward to showing him around Florence and just as excited to see his life in Barcelona. I know that although we aren’t experiencing abroad “together,” we are still very much a part of each other’s lives – and I couldn’t be more thankful.

Being abroad means being long distance from everyone and everything I love and know, but this has helped me gain a deeper appreciation for the people and things I hold so close to my heart. “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard” – Winnie the Pooh

a dopo,

Hadley