Settling In.

The time has flown by; I’m writing this in the middle of my third week, and aside from overcoming my jet lag, I feel like I just arrived last weekend. I’ve become closer with the local skaters, took an impromptu solo trip to Dresden, Germany, and my classes are finally demanding a noteworthy level of work and attention. Just a couple of days after writing my last post, I got the chance to visit Letna Park and Old Stalin Plaza—home to a famous beer garden, an eclectic population of birds, and a coveted street skating plaza. When I arrived with my board and bag there were already lots of people skating. I found a spot near where others were hanging out so I could feel safe putting my bag down, began my stretches, and realized I was sitting among ten to fifteen of the best skateboarders in the world, including Louie Lopez, a professional from Los Angeles whose signature shoes I’ve been skating for a while.

It was a treat to skate alongside people who existed in my head only through videos and magazine ads. I was also reminded that although I’m five thousand miles from home, humanity has the power to shrink this big blue planet down to a really homely size.

I’ve spent ample time getting to know the local skaters. They’re keen on going to an art bar after skate sessions, where people work on art projects together and share a pint—a nice change from going out with other American study-abroad students to the touristy clubs and pubs.

Both of my roommates spent the previous weekend in Munich at the big Oktoberfest celebration, allowing me to book a solo trip and navigate European travel on my own. Catching the right bus at the right terminal was a bit of a reality check, particularly with German drivers and staff members who didn’t speak English. I was able to talk to other travelers and find my way, hopping on a double-decker “Flixbus” two hours north to Dresden. The Czech countryside along the way was gorgeous. I caught glimpses of the mountains toward Saxon Switzerland National Park and peeked through tiny agricultural valleys that looked cozy and sleepy in anticipation of winter. Dresden itself was stunning. Just walking through the historic downtown and seeing the reconstruction and restorative efforts since the devastation of WWII was enough to entertain my senses for my first day. I stayed in a very clean hostel on the outskirts of town and spent late nights in Google Translate conversations with two older women from Russia, Tatiana and Galina. They urged me to visit Hamburg, Germany, for its historical importance in business and trade, as well as some other smaller German towns with good food and rich culture. I’ll have to find a way to sneak in a visit while I’m out here. Aside from the downtown district and local skatepark, I spent several hours in the Green Vault Museum—home to artifacts, including a crystal cup held and gifted by Martin Luther. The solo trip was a great experience, but I’m looking forward to having my schedule line up with my roommates’ so we can visit places together. By the end of my last day, I definitely felt like I was wandering aimlessly. Regardless, it was a fantastic opportunity to boost my confidence, see some history, and enjoy lots of personal reading.

Back in the classroom after Dresden, I’ve been tasked with all of my semester-long projects and now understand what is expected from each course. The professors are very relaxed but eager and excited to teach about marketing, business management, new technologies, and, of course, the Czech language. I generally have very little homework but spend three consecutive hours in each class once a week. Soon, I plan to visit some friends in Barcelona, visit Amsterdam with my roommates and some other buddies, and my parents have bookings to come visit. It’ll be so nice to see them, and I can’t wait to take them around to some of the great places I’ve discovered here in Prague. I’m guessing we’ll also do some more touristy activities together, so I’m anticipating it to be my week of visiting Prague rather than living here.

Cheers!

Romanticizing: A Reality Check

Coming from a generation where my peers and I are regularly engaged in social media —and the continuation of a “romanticizing your life” movement—it’s easy to get swept away by false perceptions and unrealistic expectations. While there is undoubtedly beauty to be found while studying abroad, there are also plenty of necessary mundanities and hiccups that aren’t as romantic as they might seem.

This past weekend, I took a trip to London and the Lake District in Northern England. Entranced by Google image searches and Taylor Swift’s Folklore references, my excitement was fueled by visions of a perfect, dreamy retreat. In reality, while the trip was magical and charming, travel is exhausting, and things rarely go seem to go perfectly. From delayed flights to a shredded credit card (beware of ATM timers when getting cash…), the magic was balanced by challenges that don’t always make it to Instagram. It’s been essential for me to distinguish between the picture-perfect moments we find online and what I genuinely want to do—and finding that balance is what makes studying abroad fulfilling rather than draining.

In the past few weeks, I’ve also been sick, battling bouts of insomnia, and struggling to juggle schoolwork, mental health, and social events. There’s grocery shopping, budgeting, errands, studying, and taking care of myself- all the parts of life that don’t stop just because I’m abroad. Finding joy and peace in these daily tasks is so important. Letting go of unrealistic expectations and romanticized ideas of what my experience “should” look like has been a challenge, but it’s also been a significant area of growth for me this month.

I am incredibly grateful and excited to continue exploring, but there is just as much joy in embracing the simplicity of everyday life as there is in the picture-esque moments.